Friday, March 12, 2010

March 14 and March 18

My son was born on a Wednesday and my mom passed away that Sunday. You might wonder what you do when such events happen within the same week, and I suppose there would be as many different answers as there are people in the universe. For me, the sadness numbed the joy and there was just a great void - a vacuum, if you will.

Nine years later, though, there is immense joy on March 14, and a dreary deepness to March 18. And then comes Spring.

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  1. Oh so know what you mean. Had that dreary feeling all week long since Mom passed away on the 10th, way too long ago. I just bet they're having a gin and tonic together somewhere nice!

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  2. Aww - what a beautiful thought that they would be together. That made my day.

    I remember so clearly the way you reached out to me during that time. Thank you.

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